My sex life with my husband is boring. I don't know that we need a SEX therapist because it's not like he has erectile dysfunction or my body isn't working -- it's just routine. Can you help?
It's pretty common that couples come in because their sex lives have become stale after many years or decades if the same routine.
The great thing about working with a therapist that is BOTH a licensed marriage and family therapist AND a certified sex therapist is that we can work from all angles -- looking at your communication, healing past hurts/barriers to hot sex, erotic languaging, how you grow anticipation for *wanting* sex, and also the mechanics. You might be surprised to hear that many couples do not know how to talk about sex -- how to talk about what they want, what they don't want, what they fantasize about, and what they may be interested in exploring. Learning to talk about these things with a trained professional in the room can be so very helpful for a couple to jumpstart their desire and open a new chapter in their committed relationship!
Getting bored with your sex life is totally normal! Often there are just a few fine-tuning things that we can do help you move into a new space that is more desirable for you both. Call us today and we will get you in for your first appointment, 720.457.3342.