Be a Grown A** Man
I tell wives all of the time, “Your husband is a grown ass man and can take care of his own feelings.”
This after the wife has said that she cannot possibly tell him the truth, the whole truth because he cannot handle it.
This, ladies, is a TERRIBLE strategy that results in you infantilizing your husband, protecting him from his emotions, and behaving (often) like his mommy and not his equal. This is a problem, big time, and will result in contempt, belittling, resentment, and power struggles in your relationship. [Note: women need to learn how to grow up often as well! Next month's post is about How to Be ...