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“Here is my sinister plan…shhhhh…don’t tell…”

Individual Therapy Denver CO
I started my career working exclusively with children.Foster children, homeless children, teenagers of all shapes and sizes, young children, old children, rich children and poor children.I doggedly engaged in learning all kinds of fancy therapies to help these children:art therapy,play therapy,sand tray therapy,reality therapy,wilderness therapy,dance therapy,…and the list goes on…in order to engage, heal and guide these young people.And then one day it occurred to me."Everyday, I am sending these children back home to their families."Back into their same systems, their same dynamics that in some cases created the ...

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Do I need a sex therapist?

Sex therapy is a specific arm of psychotherapy that provides education, resources, and guidance for individuals and couples who are struggling with a wide array of issues. Sex and intimacy are foundational in our relationships -- how much sex, what kind of sex, whether we have sex or not -- all of these aspects of sex tend to come up in our coupledom at some point in our lives. May people wonder, "am I normal?!" [HINT: chances are that you definitely are] but would like to talk with someone who specializes in sex...just to make sure.Some of the issues that you ...

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3 Reasons Why Your Sex Life Might Just Suck

If you are in a committed relationship chances are you have had an argument with your partner about sex. If you have never had such an argument — bravo you! But you might check in with you partner to be sure that they too are satisfied and not keeping mum in order to avoid a fight.#1 You have forgotten that sex is about pleasure and not necessarily about penetration.Sure, for many couples penetration is a part of the sexual event — but it certainly doesn’t need to be 1) the main event or the 2) only event.Sometimes penetration ...

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“My wife says that she can’t do this any longer…”

It is common that we get phone calls from husbands who say this exact statement.He will start by saying, “I need to make an appointment for myself for individual counseling.” When we ask, “Tell me a little bit about what is going on that brings you to make this phone call today.”He will go on:“Well…she has asked me to go to couples counseling a few years ago but I refused.”“Now she is saying that she cannot do this any longer.”“I knew that she was unhappy but I didn’t realize that she was this unhappy.”“She moved out ...

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